And if he seems to be doing so to you, make sure to push back and set boundaries. To avoid overwhelming your chat partner or making him uncomfortable, it is best to check yourself and make sure you aren't trauma dumping on him during the whole conversation. Since gay men deal with judgment from many groups, and society hasn't been very accepting of homosexuality, gay men have built up a lot of trauma in their lives. And if you follow a certain religion, chatting with a gay man might not be the right time to try to push your ideals into someone's life. It is best to avoid bringing up something that could remind them of a lot of pain. A lot of religions are very against gay people, and some people have had to connect a lot of their mental issues with past religious trauma. In the gay community, religion can be a sort of sore topic for many men. If you want to ensure that you get to chat for a second time, here are some topics to avoid: 1. When you are starting out, you want to leave a good impression.
